Bachpan Ke Din -- Papaya di pappi

1. Dangling:

We lived in an ancient house that was built for a thriving family of 50. Later the house was partitioned off and rented in portions of various size. Which means we had an array of rooms and a large roof with nooks and crannies where a child could lose him/herself. I would do the kind of thing that give me the creeps now. I jumped from tall walls, dangled from balconeys, and also climbed from one portion of the roof to another with nothing but sure death if I slipped.

2. Hated School:

I hated school at a time. As a kid I was very bright and topped my exams. Then for a while I hated school and made millions of excuses not to go. And later, after 8th, I LOVED school and even rued Sundays. The reason I think is FRIENDS. The minute I made good friends, I was willing to brave the teachers. What I hated about school was the attitude of a few teachers. I was naturally absent minded and I hated when they caught me dreaming and picked on me. In KV Malleswaram, there was this Math teacher who knew I never did my work, and would single me out for humiliation. If his intent was to make me a better student.. it failed miserably. I just got - dheed - stubborn.

When I was a child some teachers knew that my parents were divorced and that I was living with my Uncle and Aunt. They would query me about this. It was so mean on their part.

3. My various cousins

My uncle had a prolific family and they are a bossy bunch. As the youngest of the brood - I was 8 years junior to my uncle's youngest, I was bossed around mercilessly. On the other hand, it made me tougher. And it also taught me the secret to good relationships within families. NEVER LET ON THE SECRETS ENTRUSTED TO YOU. It makes you a lousy gossip companion but a great confidant. My female cousins are unusally elegant, well behaved (at least in public) and sophisticated. They have inspired me to be the same.

4. My upbringing:

This has been differnt from other people. My father was always footloose and fancy free. He was a one of those knowledge seekers who refuse to be tied down. So he was gallivanting around the world gathering degrees. His beautiful German wife was fed up of waiting for him and left him. She tried to raise her little children on her own, but could not cope and left them with her husband's brother. The offshoot of this was that we were raised in Jamangar. We moved to Bangalore when my father remarried and resurfaced in India with his American bride. So I got to know about the murkier side of relationships early on, and learnt to understand all about people and how they go about their lives. On the flip side, I never had the security of having my 'own' parents. On the other hand, I have a lot of older cousins who mother me (smother me?) and I am a member of many families who do not talk to each other.. warring factions - you know.

5. My friends:

Ever since school, I have learned to value friends. And I have been blessed with magnificent ones. Jignasha, Jaya, Aruna, Ameeta, Ramni from school, Nisha, Vani from work and I wont even start listing my MS friends and online friends.

6. Negetive is not bad.

Negetive is often just the other side of the issue and is not BAD. We are often pressured into being good all the time ( I was ). But I have realised the spice in life comes from a dash of mirchi.. the so-called BAD things in us. So hey, dont be afraid of exploring the other side of you.

Friday at Last

I have no big things lined up for the weekend. I have to run a couple of errands tomorrow, that promise to shoot big holes through my Saturday. After which Sunday will go as Sunday goes. I hope I get some much much much deserved R&r.

The rains have stopped but the heat is back with vengeance, reminding me that if it hadn't rained like cats and dogs this season, we would have roasted to hell.

Office was quite satisfactory this week. I got transferred to another department. Though that saves me from the horrible IT boss and his destructive appraisals, I feel sad that I helped set up this department and it has just disintegrated. But no matter, such is the way of the world, and it never helps to shed tears for what has gone by.

Yesterday

I had a hectic weekend. Had to take a test on Saturday, then visited Guddi, fixed my scooter, visited Neelu, returned to Baltana with Guddi, visited some friends, cooked, ate slept. Sunday was good in terms of getting things done. Managed to host dad, visit Nada Sahib after years.

Remembered Sim a lot yesterday. How we used to go to nada sahib n then hang out in Vatika smoking cigiis.. those were fun days.

Yest we had no elecy all day.. tht was big time bummer. yeeech.. anyhow.. at night got some sms's late at night.. n then slept like a log.

Yay for the new week.. no emoticons here?

Settling Down

Now that my son goes to school in an auto, I find my days settling down. The evenings are a bit of a problem, I am usually quite tired by then. I still need to do something constructive then. Let us see, with a bit of training I might be able to do something. There are books waiting to be read, some writing to be done. I should get down to it.

On the bright side, the morning are freer as my son leaves at 7.45 max. I am able to do some uninterrupted surfing then. The maid comes early too. Look at the bright side girl.

All work and no play

Well it isnt as if I am working all the time. I play when I am at work and work when I am supposed to be playing. What really sucks about a full time job is the way you are TIED DOWN. I have to spend 81/2 hours in the office, add about half hour each for commuting and I am down to a neat 91/2 hours. 10 hours of prime day time gone in warming the seat. Absences make a dent in the casual leave, so have to be careful about that. So it is like sitting in a jail for the best part of the day and by the time you are out of office you have to cook, look to the child, pick up groceries, maybe a few other things and all you are good for is a stint in front of TV. No wonder India is hooked to Saas Bahu serials, that is the only thing you are capable of after a day of drudgery.

Yeaaaahhh!

Now my son is ensconced in his new school now. What's even better is that he has felt instantly comfortable there. That is a huge relief for me. Now once his routine is regularised I can breathe easy and start breathing down his neck for improved grades. he he he. That is the best part of being a parent.. to be able to whip your kids (figuratively) once in a while.

Now my tasks are, getting my lost license re-made and getting the papers of my Kinetic in order.

Elloo will I ever find time to settle back in my favorite chair and JUST READ?????

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